tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post6910590866140288204..comments2024-03-05T23:06:10.786-08:00Comments on corner blog: round up: meanwhile, back at the ranchTiffaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12971376426900073057noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-15233802648167259952012-08-05T23:35:33.962-07:002012-08-05T23:35:33.962-07:00Thank you for the perspective, Ann. You're rig...Thank you for the perspective, Ann. You're right about all of it, I think. We spent part of this weekend actually hashing over some of the very things you are mentioning here. I'm so glum tonight though, only two weeks left of summer vacation. I wish it could be a lot longer.<br /><br />Thanks about the photos, I'm learning! I wanted to tell you that I have been in and out of your blog over this past week but I'm so far "behind" on commenting that I didn't leave any. I was really, really impressed on that super-in-depth post you did on stamps. Loved it! Also checked out your "Art" page, and thought it was a great thing for you to have posted. Also, Pentel Sign Pens for life! xoxoTiffaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12971376426900073057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-85330765215188811452012-08-05T17:03:44.609-07:002012-08-05T17:03:44.609-07:00Hey Tiffanie!
I know how you feel. It really bot...Hey Tiffanie!<br /><br />I know how you feel. It really bothered me. But you know what, you really don't save that much. If you both work full time you need day care, 2 good cars, good take out food, more clothes, etc. plus you probably end up in a higher tax bracket. I freelance now 15 hrs a week and I feel like it is a good compromise. I can't see ever going back full time! Even with kids in school there is still so much to handle as a mom! Looked through many of your posts today, AWESOME photos!!! ♡ AnnAnnhttp://www.doodlesandjots.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-78890876987157456652012-08-02T23:57:02.068-07:002012-08-02T23:57:02.068-07:00Thanks for your thoughtful comment, Tania, and als...Thanks for your thoughtful comment, Tania, and also for that perspective on being here for sick days, etc. Never thought about it like that, but it does help in that regard that I am home. We really are wending our own way, and since I wrote this I've been thinking a lot more about it all and how it has worked for all of us, but I still feel uneasy. I don't know why! I think I need more friends at our exact income level who have stayed home with their kids and therefore have sacrificed a little "upward mobility", so I can have people around who I can relate to. There's such a mixed bag of levels of income and combinations of who works and who doesn't here, but I haven't run into too many people exactly in my shoes. All that said, I thank my lucky stars every day for this life. I just feel a change coming in me. Is it possible I am getting excited to work again? Never saw that coming. I love what I'm doing now, and there will be a big hole in my heart when the kids are too old to play all day, but you are right about the career piece falling into place, I think. Maybe that's what all this questioning is about. xoxoTiffaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12971376426900073057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-87332253809553345682012-08-02T15:26:38.329-07:002012-08-02T15:26:38.329-07:00Oh Tiff, I think all families, mothers and childre...Oh Tiff, I think all families, mothers and children are different. What is right for you & your family doesn't have to be right for someone else, just you. There is also huge benefits for a working parent when the other parent takes care of the home & children during the day. So you may think he is carrying a huge load but by being a SAHM you make things easier for him because you can take care of the children on a sick day, during breaks and after school. I always felt badly for my hubby because of my work schedule he was not taken care of as well as some other husbands we knew. Life balance is hard, when one piece of the pie is taken care of, another is on hiatus. I think your career piece will be taken care of when you're ready, you don't need to have it all...at once.mauishopgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08322893236734256761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-17418424454199147112012-08-01T11:27:12.233-07:002012-08-01T11:27:12.233-07:00Angelia! Long time no see! I just visited your blo...Angelia! Long time no see! I just visited your blog a few days ago, I have so much catching up to do! xoTiffaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12971376426900073057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-83017058474391006222012-07-30T21:58:26.580-07:002012-07-30T21:58:26.580-07:00Oh this is so hard! I can't imagine. But I hop...Oh this is so hard! I can't imagine. But I hope you can always hang on to the wonderful gift you have given them to start out with. That is precious. :-)Angelia Sims https://www.blogger.com/profile/07651508374785160575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-50269607210309790412012-07-29T23:43:13.897-07:002012-07-29T23:43:13.897-07:00Thank you, LT! I'm so glad you're reading,...Thank you, LT! I'm so glad you're reading, still! You are right, but I do know so many people who work AND have happy kids who are not in their own care every day, so I just hope we've made wise decisions. Like I said, no matter what, how could I ever regret having had all of this time with my two precious ones. But could I be doing more for our family's greater good? Probably. We shall see what develops. xoxoTiffaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12971376426900073057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1086416954974464870.post-34701566573332075172012-07-29T12:30:55.103-07:002012-07-29T12:30:55.103-07:00I always enjoy these roundup posts, Tiffanie. This...I always enjoy these roundup posts, Tiffanie. This one was no exception. <br /><br />I believe being a mother is a full time job and has its struggles and trials. It's a job you enjoy, I don't believe you have to feel bad about that. :) Revel in it while you can!Larissa T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18054129254135419707noreply@blogger.com